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Friday, July 10, 2009

Pleasure and Pain. Which one first?

If you ever prepared hard for a major exam or trained for a marathon or worked out to build muscle or lose weight you probably know what I'm going to talk about. You go through a certain kind of pain in anticipation of pleasure. Right? I went through the pain of running every Saturday morning for tens of miles to experience the pleasure of finishing a marathon. Well, in the process I had many benefits and truly enjoyed the journey but still felt the pain of party less Friday nights and early Saturday morning. You get the point.

Pain came first and pleasure came next, whenever the goal was achieved. I think, most of the things work in a similar way except for RELATIONSHIPS. It's so much of pleasure when a relationship is established but eventually it's going to break and there's going to be pain. Agree?
Well, you can argue that many relationships do not break. But I tend to disagree. Everything is destined to break. That's natures law. The time when things break and the way things break can vary.

EUREKA POINT: Relationships start with pleasure and end with pain. So stay away from them. Well, if you can. I can't.